Your Attitude, Your Pace

Most people really don’t understand the word ‘Attitude.’ People do believe the word is all up alone in the quotable quotes and not to be expressed. I will like to run a few ideas on Attitude, so we can both understand that word and the reasons why we have to express it in our daily activities.  

Attitude -in my own konkolo idea- is our approach to issues or situation. The approach could either be good or bad through our body language or tone of voice etc.  

John C. Maxwell believes that "People may hear your words, but they feel your attitude." It is very true.

Our attitude towards others will determine their attitude towards us, this is very simple. When you approach people joyfully they will also return same gesture to you. But whenever you approach others with a squeezed face –like someone who drank Koboko Bitters- be rest assured that they will avoid you like a Lastma Officer on the high way.

Likewise, a bad attitude is like a flat tyre, if you don’t change it, you will never go anywhere. When your course-mates, colleagues, friends and family see you as a special case –person wey dey always frown like MOPOL- . You are never cheerful or happy, they will never come to share ideas with you or invite you to their occasions because they will feel like you are not approachable.

You will miss opportunities that can help build your career or personal life. And like stagnant water, such a person with bad attitude will definitely stink.

All you need is a good attitude. Be cheerful and friendly. Let people want to wake up and see you first. A good/positive attitude may not solve all your problems but it will encourage enough people to make your effort worthwhile.

With a smiley face and a positive attitude you can never have a bad day!

So, today I want you to carry yourself with a positive attitude. When your attitude is changed, your thoughts will change. When your thought is changed then your behaviour will change. Likewise your behaviour will change your action. All you need is a positive action that will bring good results –gbam-

John Mitchell once said that “our attitude towards life determines life’s attitude towards us”. If you believe that in life you will succeed and you work towards it, life will grant your request; though it may tarry but it will never fail.

Don’t imagine the worst incidents in your emotional life, always keep a positive attitude. Believe that you will overcome every problem you are facing.  

Your attitude also reflect on your mode of dressing. Don't just dress like someone who is mourning. Dress smart. Please do remember that you are never fully dressed without a smile *grinning*. 

Finally, wherever you go or wherever you find yourself, no matter the weather, always bring along your sunshine because your attitude is everything. Let your presence within your family and friends bring them happiness –at least share your sunshine with them-

Success is yours always with a positive attitude, never forget that. You will rise again gloriously. Have a pleasant day ahead. Cheers. –Boyish smile-